Family Mediation London Surrey | Bespoke Mediation Service
Family disputes can be overwhelming, emotionally draining, and costly when taken to court. Bespoke Mediation Service provides an accessible, confidential, and cost-effective alternative across London and Surrey. Our experienced mediators guide families through constructive dialogue, helping you reach lasting agreements on financial settlements, child arrangements, and future co-parenting. Whether you need family mediation London Surrey, divorce mediation Esher Surrey, or child custody mediation Surrey, our team is here to support you every step of the way.
Our Comprehensive Family Mediation Services in London and Surrey by Besppoke Mediation Service
At Bespoke Mediation Service, we tailor every session to your unique needs. Our core offerings include:
- Family Mediation London Surrey: Facilitating constructive conversations between separating partners to resolve disputes about assets, living arrangements, and co-parenting without court intervention.
- Divorce Mediation Esher Surrey: Specialised divorce mediation on Fitzroy Street or via secure video sessions, ensuring clarity on financial settlements, pensions, and property division.
- MIAM Services London: Mandatory Initial Assessment Meetings (MIAM) to explore mediation as the first step before court proceedings, saving time and money.
- Child Custody Mediation Surrey: Child-focused mediation sessions designed to prioritise your children’s best interests, supported by accredited family mediators.
- Family Dispute Resolution London: Broader dispute resolution for elder care, inheritance conflicts, or any family breakdown, all under the legal framework for civil mediation in London.
Our mediators are accredited by the Family Mediation Council and come with decades of combined experience. Every service is underpinned by strict confidentiality, neutrality, and a commitment to lasting solutions. Whether you book a MIAM appointment in Surrey or need in-person sessions in South West London, Bespoke Mediation Service delivers professional, empathetic support.

Why Choose Bespoke Mediation Service for Family Mediation London Surrey
Choosing the right mediator can make all the difference. Bespoke Mediation Service stands out because we:
- Hold dual accreditation with the Family Mediation Council and ADR Group, ensuring compliance with all legal standards.
- Offer flexible locations, including central London (Fitzroy Street) and Esher in Surrey, plus remote sessions.
- Prioritise your family’s well-being, focusing on respectful communication and child-centred outcomes.
- Provide transparent pricing with no hidden fees, so you know exactly what to expect.
- Deliver expert guidance, helping you understand legal implications and empowering you to make informed decisions.
MIAM Services in London with Bespoke Mediation Service
Before initiating most family court proceedings, you must attend a MIAM. Our MIAM services London include:
- A one-to-one assessment to explain mediation processes.
- Exploration of alternatives to court, including arbitration and solicitor negotiations.
- Written certificates confirming completion, valid for six months.
Book your MIAM appointment with our London team today and take the first step toward amicable resolution.
Divorce Mediation Esher Surrey by Bespoke Mediation Service
Our divorce mediation Esher Surrey sessions are designed for couples seeking an amicable separation. We cover:
- Division of assets, debts, and pensions.
- Child arrangements and ongoing communication plans.
- Spousal maintenance and financial disclosure.
Conveniently located near the Esher High Street, our dedicated Essex Road suite offers a private, supportive environment to navigate your divorce mediation.
Child Custody Mediation in Surrey | Bespoke Mediation Service
When children are involved, emotions run high. Our child custody mediation Surrey focuses on:
- Creating parenting plans that reflect your children’s routines and needs.
- Establishing safe, nurturing transition arrangements.
- Supporting children’s voices—if appropriate—with child-inclusive mediation.
Let us help you design a stable future for your family.
Family Dispute Resolution in London with Bespoke Mediation Service
Beyond divorce, families face many conflicts. Our family dispute resolution London covers:
- Grandparent contact arrangements.
- Elder care and inheritance disagreements.
- Disputes arising from cohabitation breakdown.
We facilitate constructive dialogue to rebuild trust and find tailored solutions without the formality and expense of the courts.
The Mediation Process Explained by Bespoke Mediation Service
- Initial Enquiry & MIAM
You contact us via phone or online form. We schedule your MIAM in London or Surrey and explain mediation’s benefits. - Agreement to Mediate
Both parties sign a mediation agreement, confirming confidentiality and ground rules. - Joint Sessions
Mediator-led meetings allow each party to present needs and concerns. We use shuttle mediation if direct contact is difficult. - Private Consultations
Optional one-to-one sessions with each party to clarify proposals and explore options. - Drafting the Agreement
Once consensus is reached, we draft a Memorandum of Understanding, which you can take to solicitors for legally binding approval. - Follow-Up Support
Post-mediation check-ins ensure agreements are working and make adjustments if necessary.
Our transparent, step-by-step approach helps you understand every stage, empowering you to negotiate with confidence.
3 Local Hotspots in Esher, Surrey | Bespoke Mediation Service
- Sandown Park Racecourse: Iconic racecourse offering regular events and beautiful grounds just minutes from our Esher office.
- Claremont Landscape Garden: Historic National Trust gardens with woodlands, water features, and scenic walking paths—perfect for reflective walks after mediation.
- Esher Common: Expansive green space ideal for family picnics, dog walking, or simply unwinding in nature following your sessions.

Frequently Asked Questions | Bespoke Mediation Service
1. How much does family mediation cost in Surrey and London?
Family mediation fees with Bespoke Mediation Service vary depending on location and session length. MIAM appointments in London start at £120 per person, while joint mediation sessions in Surrey average £180 per hour, split equally between both parties. We offer fixed-fee packages for full mediation processes, typically ranging from £600 to £1,200 inclusive of all preparatory work and follow-up support. Payment plans can be arranged on a case-by-case basis. All costs are transparent, with no hidden disbursements.
2. Do I need a MIAM before going to court in Surrey?
Yes. Under Civil Procedure Rules (CPR) Part 3 and Family Procedure Rules (FPR), you must attend a MIAM before issuing most family court proceedings in Surrey. The MIAM helps you explore mediation and other alternatives to court. At Bespoke Mediation Service, your MIAM is conducted by an accredited mediator who will explain mediation’s benefits, assess your case, and issue a certificate valid for six months. This certificate is required by the court to demonstrate you considered mediation.
3. What happens during a family mediation session in London?
In a London mediation session, both parties meet with a neutral mediator to discuss issues constructively. The mediator introduces ground rules, ensures respectful dialogue, and helps you articulate concerns. Sessions last around 90 minutes, during which you’ll explore options for property division, child arrangements, and financial support. Our Fitzroy Street office offers a calm, private setting. If direct meetings prove difficult, we use shuttle mediation—mediating between separate rooms—to maintain neutrality and safety.
4. Can children speak to mediators in Surrey family mediation?
Yes—in child-inclusive mediation, trained child consultants facilitate age-appropriate discussions with children, allowing them to express views in a safe environment. These sessions are separate from adult discussions, ensuring children are not pressured. The mediator then conveys children’s perspectives to parents, helping shape parenting plans that genuinely meet your child’s needs. Bespoke Mediation Service strictly follows Family Mediation Council guidelines to protect children’s welfare throughout the process.
5. How long does the mediation process take in London Surrey?
The duration varies by case complexity. A straightforward separation with limited assets may conclude in 2–4 sessions, typically over 4–6 weeks. Complex cases involving significant assets or high conflict can require 6–10 sessions over 3–6 months. Bespoke Mediation Service offers flexible scheduling, including evening and weekend appointments, to expedite progress. Your mediator will provide an estimated timeline after your MIAM, and regular reviews ensure we stay on track toward resolution.
Family Mediation London Surrey | Bespoke Mediation Service
Choosing Bespoke Mediation Service for family mediation in London and Surrey ensures you benefit from personalized, legally sound guidance that prioritizes your family’s well-being and stability. Our accredited mediators offer a safe environment where open communication fosters mutual understanding, helping you resolve disputes over finances, child arrangements, and future planning without the expense and stress of court. By attending a MIAM and engaging in mediation sessions for divorce, child custody, and family disputes in London and Surrey, you take proactive steps toward constructive solutions. The clear process outlined by our team provides transparency and control, allowing you to focus on healing and moving forward. With flexible appointments across London, Esher, and Kingston upon Thames, plus remote sessions, Bespoke Mediation Service adapts to your schedule and needs. Reach out today to begin your journey toward reconciliation and a brighter future for your family. Benefit from cost savings, impartial advice, ongoing support.
Contact Bespoke Mediation Service for Family Mediation London Surrey
At Bespoke Mediation Service, our mission is to transform conflict into cooperation. Whether you require family mediation London Surrey, divorce mediation Esher Surrey, or family dispute resolution London, our accredited mediators provide expert, empathetic support every step of the way. We combine legal knowledge with compassionate listening to help you achieve fair, sustainable outcomes—saving you time, stress, and money.
Get in touch today to book your MIAM appointment in Surrey or London. Call us on 0203 879 7876, email info@bespokemediationservice.co.uk, or complete our online enquiry form for a prompt response. Let Bespoke Mediation Service guide your family toward a brighter, more harmonious future.

